WIDOWS & WIDOWERS’ KIDS’ LIABILITIES MANAGEMENT
INTRODUCTION
My research on reason why widows find it not too easy to get widowers who are truly committed to them in terms of remarriage possibility!
1- Child/Children Cohabitation
It’s a bit difficult for the children of a widow & children of the widower to cohabit same residence for a period of time without experiencing unnecessary temptations and misunderstanding!
2- Children’s Attitude
It’s expedient to understand that children individually, certainly has individual character!
It doesn’t even matter if they are same parents or not – there will always be individual disparity when compared to others.
Therefore,the widow or widower must sincerely see to it that your agreement is – – – we’ll read:
– well informed
– well understood,
– well detailed boundaries,etc
Before the marriage is consumated?
3- Children’s Separation Something
I believe this is for both widow & widower:
If your children are grown ups, it’s better there is a separation between these children in order to avoid constant misunderstanding.It doesn’t matter how grown you they may seem on the outside ( in terms of physical built); this doesn’t mean they are truly matured.
4- Solution For Separation
Another angle to the separation of children is – even though the widow & widower eventually spelt out how they both wanted to carry on their relationship (without allowing children issue put asunder):
5- WIDOW
Let the widow leave her previous resident and move in with the widower, while her children remain in the house she moved out from. Though she owe the children the duty of shuttling between the children & Widowers’ house!
6- WIDOWER
What he should be ready to do is
– ensuring he still pays for the apparent where the widow’s children lives.
– and also counsel the children often as occasionally as possible
– and also his own children should accept his new wife as step mother
7- Cohabitation Possibility
Nevertheless, it’s possible both widow & widower allow their both children to cohabit the same house as long as there is assurance of peace!
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