Introduction
Apparently, we can’t avoid belonging to human association to a large extent. Because to lack an association is die in isolation. God is not a fool when He said:
“It’s not good that man should be alone!”
Nevertheless it’s discretional to chose our individual association – even in widowhood, because your association determine your forward or backward movement in life!
1- Mourners’ Àssociation
I learnt in Europe there are certain women who Professional Mourners!
Such women are hired to come & cry in funerals.
In the same vein are certain widows who are looking for other widows that are Mourning Widows like them!
I don’t care your tradition, but you must know over mourning will eventually lead to becoming sadist, witchcraft, etc.
God told Joshua point blank:
“Moses my servant is dead,now therefore arise,go over this Jordan, you and all this people to the land which I give to them..” Josh. 1:1-3!
Therefore Mourners Association=
Turtles
Association
As you know 

crawls for life!
2- Thinkers Association
Those who think don’t have time to cry. It’s not because they don’t have or know pain, but they decided that pains will not tie them down.
These are widows who don’t believe in locking themselves up just cry as crying will bring back thier dead. Such cry a while & wipe their tears because they know that Satan love to see Widows’ Crying but God loves seeing Widows Smiling,
The bible says:
“With joy shall you draw water from the well of Salvation” Isiah 12:3
These this association thinks of what to do next.
This are Eagles 

Association
The eagle is a thinker – it flies
Thinking widows fly above situations by becoming creative. Creative widows becomes productive eventually.
Examples
Are Naomi & Ruth!
They cried a while & wiped off their tears & began to think. Their creative thinking lunched them into productive living,today we are reading their stories of victories & breakthroughs!